Worry is Fear and You Have Choice! You Can Choose To Worry or Not!

Steph Wynne
3 min readApr 10, 2020

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Either you will wither like a flower or stand tall like a solider during these changing times!

you can choose to worry or not..either way its your mind

Pat Yourself on the Back

After all the sh#t you went through to get to where you are, you better not give up! All the time you spent reading, learning, researching, putting into action and creating a world for you and your family.

You might as well keep going because you got the hunger to be what you wanna be. You might as well keep teaching yourself what you need to know to communicate with others. You might as well inspire whoever is around you.

You can give up if you want and live in a puddle of despair and self-hatred. F that!

Stop worrying if you can’t pay the rent. Either you will or you won’t, the key is to make an effort and if you get the money great, then analyze what put you in the situation to not have it. If you don’t get the money then maybe it’s time to move on…

Stop worrying about the car note. Really. I know you need your car, but maybe you should get look at the “new options” for getting around. Otherwise, if you must have your car then you will get the money so stop worrying or thinking of a “way,” you’ll get it…

Stop Freakin’ Worrying!

Who and what in the hell is “Worry?” Is Worry a friend that owes you money and can’t pay you back. Is Worry the bad attitude towards your credit card bills? Is Worry that roommate joker who owes you rent and doesn’t have the money?

Who the hell is Worry and why do we blame our problems on him? We all blame Worry about something. When we can’t pay our bills we call on Worry when we have medical issues we call on Worry. When we think our spouse or partner is cheating we call Worry. WTF?

Why does everybody call on Worry? What if Worry wasn’t around who would you depend on? What if you couldn’t call on Worry? What if Worry gave up trying to help you?

When Worry steps out the picture your pal “Problem” steps in. Problem is a different kind of animal. Problem makes you feel hopeless with no control of your life. But see you can fool Problem. You can actually take your pal Problem as a positive situation to alert that your best buddy “Change” is on the way.

Change is good but sometimes tough because it causes us to stretch. Sometimes we have to be pushed screaming and all to Change. But Change is a good guy. It means your life is moving in a different direction. That means there’s a new chapter to be excited about!

So yes it’s crazy in the world and it will always be, however, you better not wither and fold over, but stand tall and rise!

Just sayin’

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Steph Wynne
Steph Wynne

Written by Steph Wynne

Business Entrepreneur, Writer, Author, Filmmaker, Web Designer

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